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sunkcost.dating
Running total since
Entries
64
Dates
44 hrs
Travel
19 hr 5 min
Total time
63 hr 5 min
Cost
$2,999.27
Cost per date hour
$68.17
Recoverable
none

Latest term in the lexicon

decentering men

verb phrase

Stated meaning
Choosing to organize one's time, attention, and sense of worth around something other than romantic relationships with men.
Operating meaning
A sound principle that the video format keeps returning to the center, since each post about not thinking about him requires about 40 minutes of editing footage about not thinking about him.
Entry 003

negging

noun

A scripted insult sold in installments, whose most reliable measurable effect is on the revenue of the person who wrote the script.

Entry 002

One dozen roses, $15.00, bought the afternoon before the first date and left in my car until the end of the evening. They sat in a parking lot for 180 minutes, 45 minutes from my apartment, while I was inside asking 4 prepared questions in order. Flowers appear twice in this arc, and the second set was handed over at the start of the evening instead.

Entry 001

Autopsy · Subject M.

A date that audits clean

180 minutes, 10 questions from her, 10 from me, 0 phone checks, $143.73 paid in full by me. The audit found nothing. A second date is scheduled.