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Your Turn Limits
noun, plural, the name of a Hinge feature
- Stated meaning
- A cap on how many matches can sit waiting for your reply, meant to reduce burnout and get more people out on dates.
- Operating meaning
- A ceiling on unanswered conversations: past a set number of replies owed, the app stops showing anyone new until some are paid or written off.
- Origin
- A Hinge feature, tested in May 2024 and launched globally that September, named after the "Your Turn" reminder the app introduced in 2017. It is a product name, and the record holds no use of it outside Hinge's own releases.
Hinge announced the test (opens in a new window) in May 2024. Users “with eight or more people waiting for their response will have a decision to make: reply, or end the chat in order to continue sending and receiving additional likes.” The name comes from an older feature. In 2017 Hinge introduced “Your Turn” “as a way to remind daters when it’s their turn to reply to someone and reduce accidental ghosting.” The case for the stricter version was Hinge’s own research: 44% of daters cite lack of responsiveness as a top dating challenge, and matches in 2023 whose first message was answered within 24 hours were “72% more likely to result in a date.”
In September 2024 Hinge launched it globally (opens in a new window). The release reported that the test “increased responsiveness on the app by 20%,” and that 48% of users said the feature helped them focus on quality over quantity. Hinge’s director of relationship science gave the reasoning. Presented with too many options, “we often experience analysis paralysis,” and make no decision at all. The feature supplies the decision by withholding new options until one is made.
Under load, the match list becomes a schedule of replies owed. Each conversation in which the other party wrote last is a payable, and at 8 the account is frozen: no new likes go out and none come in until the balance comes down. The balance can be settled by replying or by ending the chat, and the app accepts either as payment. Ending is the cheaper of the 2, and it resolves an unanswered message by removing the conversation it was unanswered in.