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wokefishing

noun, also verb (to wokefish)

Stated meaning
Pretending to hold progressive political views on a dating profile to attract partners.
Operating meaning
Values listed on a profile at a higher figure than the holder carries, on the assumption that the buyer audits the listing and not the conduct.
Origin
Defined by Serena Smith in Vice in July 2020, which named no coiner. Cambridge Dictionary entered it in July 2023.

In July 2020 Vice (opens in a new window) defined the word: “‘Wokefishing’, put simply, is when people masquerade as holding progressive political views to ensnare potential partners.” Serena Smith’s article named no coiner. Cambridge Dictionary (opens in a new window) entered it 3 years later as “pretending to care more than you actually do about social problems such as racism and inequality in order to attract someone you want to have a romantic relationship with.”

The 2 definitions disagree on the size of the fraud. Vice describes a set of views assumed. Cambridge describes a quantity overstated: care that is held, in some amount, and claimed in a larger one. The dictionary’s version puts the word in the same family as kittenfishing, which rounds a profile up, and further from catfishing, which counterfeits one.

Under load, the profile lists a position, and a position is cheap to list and expensive to audit. A view can be checked only against conduct, over time, in situations a first date does not supply. The listing holds until the conduct is observed, and the person who bought on it learns the true figure the way every buyer of a rounded-up profile does, after the purchase. The seller, meanwhile, has learned which positions sell.